Glossary

Abuck

A term for an anal intercourse position where the recipient lies on their back with their knees touching their shoulders.

AC/DC

Slang for bisexual

Acrophilia

Sexual arousal from being in high places.

Afterglow

The good feeling experienced after sex, especially the feeling of a woman/man after an orgasm.

Agalmatophilia

Sexual arousal from statues or mannequins.

Agoraphilia

Arousal from open spaces or having sex in public.

Altoids

Brand name of a breath mint, said to provide extra pleasure when used by a person giving FELLATIO.

American Fister

Insertion of a maximum of four fingers into the vagina or anus. The missing finger is to reduce the risk of obscenity prosecution.

Anal Sex

Sex involving the insertion of the penis or some other body part or object into the anus.

Angry Dragon

To cum out a guy's nose during a blowjob.

Anilingus

Oral sex performed on the anus. See also RIMMING.

Anorgasmic

Incapable of having an ORGASM.

Anus

The opening between the buttocks through which you shit and can have ANAL SEX. The "ass hole".

Aphrodisiac

A device that stimulates sexual arousal, usually a drug.

Arabian Goggles

A maneuver when you put your testicles over his eye sockets while he is cock sucking.

Around the World

Anilingus and Fellatio.

Asanawa

Hemp rope. In practice the Japanese don't differentiate between jute and hemp and use both in bondage.

Asian Cowgirl

Woman rides on top during intercourse, squatting over the man on her feet, not on her knees.

ATM (Ass To Mouth)

The man pulls his cock out of her ass and inserts it directly into her mouth without stopping to clean it off.

Autoerotic Asphyxiation

AUTOEROTIC STRANGULATION

Autoerotic Strangulation

Suffocating oneself via strangulation for sexual stimulation, especially to increase the intensity of orgasm. A dangerous practice that sometimes results in death.

Autofellatio

When a man performs oral sex on himself.

Ball Hood

Inflatable hood.

Ball Stretching

Wrapping the scrotum with some kind of leather strap tightly and pulling down with increasing pressure.

Balloon Knot

The anus.

Basket

A man's crotch.

Bastinado

The whipping of the soles of the feet.

BBBJ

Bareback Blow Job, oral stimulation of the penis without a condom.

BBBJTC

Bareback Blow Job To Completion, oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow)

Beard

A "beard" is a person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could "pass" as straight, either for work or for their families.

Beef

Buffed men.

Beret

A condom.

Binding

Wrapping the feet or genitals with string, rope, or lace.

Birdwatching

BBBJTC and they swallows.

Bishonen

A beautiful boy.

Bloodsports

BDSM play that involves blood, including cutting and piercing.

Blow Job

FELLATIO.

BLS

Ball licking and sucking.

Blumpkin

A blowjob while one of you are on the toilet.

Body Inflation

A fetish for sudden growth of particular body parts, like nose growth.

Bondage

Restricting a partner's movement with ropes or other devices.

Bottom

1. The submissive person in BDSM activity. Opposite of TOP.
2. The one who is penetrated during anal sex, especially between gay males. Opposite of TOP.

Branding

To burn or scar the skin.

Breath Play, Breath Control

Restricting airflow, by strangulation, suffocation, or other means for sexual stimulation.

Breathing Tube

Short rubber hose used for breathing with gasmasks and vacuum beds. A breathing tube can also be used for liquid intake play for long term enclosure.

Breeders

A derogatory term for heterosexuals, especially for those who glorify childbearing.

Brow Eye

A derogatory term for the anus.

Brown Bag

When a girl has a great body and an ugly face. Put a brown bag on her head before sex. Also See BUTTERFACE.

Buddy Booth

A booth in an adult video store that allows viewing and/or interaction with the person in an adjacent booth.

Bugger, Buggery

ANAL SEX, especially anal sex performed by a man on a man.

Bukkake

An ancient Japanese art/tradition wherein ten to a hundred men gather around a woman and ejaculate on her face. See also FACIAL.

Bullet

A tiny vibrator meant to be inserted in the vagina or anus.

Butt Fucking

To have ANAL SEX

Butt Plug

A sex toy designed for anal penetration that has a flared base. Usually smaller than a typical dildo and not shaped like a penis.

Caballero Box

The large sized box in which some porn movies are packaged. Named after the company that first popularized the format.

Candaulism

When a spouse watches their partner having sex with others.

Caning

Whipping with a switch or cane to discipline partner.

Catheter

Any hollow thin flexible tube designed to be inserted into the body. The process of inserting a catheter is called catheterization.

CBJ

Covered Blow Job, fellatio with a condom.

Chocolate Pizza

Discovering hemorrhoids while TOSSING SALAD.

Chocolate Starfish

Humorous term for the ANUS. Sometimes used in a derogatory sense against gay people.

Chokuritsufudou

Standing at attention. A form of bondage where the body is wrapped in parallel ropes while the submissive is standing as if at attention.

CIM

Cum in mouth.

Circle

Refers to one's chosen family.

Circle Jerk

Group masturbation or jerking off.

Circumcision, Circumcise

Removing the FORESKIN of the penis, often done to infants.

Clap, The

GONORRHEA. Usage note: usually used in the phrase "the clap"

Cleave Gag

A gag which cleaves between the lips as it is wrapped around the head.

Clinic

Medical play.

Cock Ring

A device, often a leather strap, placed at the base of an erect penis in order to restrict blood flow and maintain an erection.

Cock Snot

Humorous term for SEMEN.

Cocktail

Drinking of body secretions from a glass.

Condom

A sheath placed over the penis during sexual intercourse to prevent pregnancy and the transmission of disease by forming a barrier and capturing the semen. Condoms are usually made of latex but sometimes are made of polyurethane or animal skin.

Coprophilia

Sexual interest in feces (shit).

Coyote

This occurs when you wake up in the room of a nasty girl and you know you've got to give her the slip. However, you realize that your arm is wrapped around her. Therefore you must gnaw off your own arm to get out of the situation.

Crossdress

For a man to wear women's clothing. Used especially for men who only occasionally dress as women but maintain their masculine identity otherwise. See also TRANSVESTITE, TRANSSEXUAL

Crurofact

A leg fetish.

Crushing

A fetish practice where someone steps on food, insects, or even small animals.

Cum Shot

Ejaculation of a male actor's semen.

Cum Swapping

Passing the ejaculate from the mouth of one person orally to another. Also called Snowballing.

Daisy Chain

Partner (A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B) who is sucking off or eating out partner (C) and so on until the final person is sucking off or eating out partner (A). Partners can be gay, lesbian or straight.

Danza Slap

Slapping a person's face with your penis. Refers to the urban legend that the actor Tony Danza starred in adult movies where he performed this act. For a true "Danza", you have to yell "Who's the Boss?"

Dark Room

A playroom which is intentionally quite dark. Can mostly be found in the fetish scene.

DATO

Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus.

Deep Throat

Slang for inserting the penis down one's throat during fellatio.

Dildo

A cylindrical sex toy, often shaped like a penis, used to penetrate the vagina or anus. Usage note: A dildo generally refers to a toy with no moving parts, as opposed to a VIBRATOR which includes an electric motor and vibrates.

Dildo Panties

Panties made from latex with an internal dildo or butt plug.

Dirty Sanchez

After anal sex, wiping off the dirty penis or hand on the person's upper lip, to simulate a moustache.

Discipline

Verbal role playing.

Doggie Style

Sexual intercourse where the man enters the man's anus from the back side; also called rear-entry.

Dogging

Couples who engage in sex in their car while others watch from outside.

Domme

The dominant person in a bondage or S&M relationship; usually female. See DOMINATRIX

Dong

Slang for a dildo.

Donkey Punch

Having anal sex with someone and punching them in the back of the head to make them pass out. Said to induce a clenching of the anal sphincter in the unconscious person.

Double Anal

Two cocks in the ass at the same time for maximum stretching.

Double Dildo, Double Dong

A double-ended dildo. Can be used by two individuals simultaneously.

Drag King

A woman dressed like a man.

Drag Queen

A man who dresses in women's clothing, the term is especially used for gay men who dress up in elaborate outfits sometimes as part of a stage show. See also TRANSVESTITE.

Drill Dong

Attaching a dildo to a drill or hammer and power-fucking an individual.

Drop Shot

Ejaculation by the male into, or onto, the anus of the person after having anal sex.

Dungeon

A room designed for S&M play.

Dutch Oven

When you fart while in bed, then pull the covers over both of your heads so she can enjoy smell.

Dyke

A lesbian.

Ebi

Prawn, lobster, shrimp. A form of suspension where the body curves like a crustacean.

Edgeplay

Potentially dangerous sexual practices, often involving pain.

Elbow-Bondage

Aficionados use this term for restraint which holds the elbows together, touching, behind the back -- a feat possible only with flexible, healthy captives. Term is sometimes loosely applied to any restraint which leashes the elbows toward each other.

Ellie

LE, Law Enforcement

Emytophilla

Sex involving vomit.

Enema

An apparatus used to cause evacuation by pumping water or inserting a chemical into the rectum.

Enter

To put the penis into the anus.

Erectile Disfunction (ED)

The inability to get or sustain an erection, a euphemism for IMPOTENCE.

Exhibitionism

Getting sexual pleasure from exposing oneself to others or being watched while having sex. Opposite of VOYEURISM.

Face Painting

When a man ejaculates on someone's face.

Facesitting

A fetish practice where a person sits on a man's face, smothering him.

Fag Hag

A heterosexual woman who socializes extensively with gay men.

Felch, Felching

To ejaculate into an anus and then lick or suck the semen out.

Fellate

Perform FELLATIO.

Fellatio

Oral sex performed on a man.

Female Ejaculation

the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by females during sex.

Femdom

A woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM play; a DOMINATRIX

Feminization

Dressing a man up in women's clothing, make-up, etc. to take on a female appearance. Sometimes used in BDSM play as a form of humiliation.

Femme

Possessing traditional feminine appearance, attributes and behaviors. Often used to describe gay men and women. Opposite of BUTCH.

Fetish

A strong sexual interest in or obsession over some object, body part, or activity. Examples include foot fetish and latex fetish. Also used broadly to describe any non-traditional sex, especially BDSM.

Filling The Pool

Jizzing in your partner's belly button

Finger

To stimulate a man's orifice with the hand.

Fishhooking

an act where the top partner in doggy style position puts his/her finger in the cheek of the person in the prone position and pulls back, like a fish on a hook

Fist, Fisting

To place much of the hand, or the entire hand, in the vagina or anus.

Flit

Derogatory term for Homosexual.

Fluffer

A woman or man who performs oral sex on an actor to arouse him in preparation for a MONEY SHOT ("cum shot") that must be filmed quickly and with little on-camera preparation. Also called "fluff girl" or "fluff boy".

Flying Dutchman

Just as you are about to blow a load, in any sort of sexual situation (even masturbation for those true pioneers who are constantly on the cutting edge of the sexual revolution) you begin to shout, "Here comes the Flying Dutchman!" This should confuse your sexual partner (or whoever is in hearing range) completely, sometimes causing interesting side effects.

Foot Job

Rubbing feet on the penis, usually until ejaculation.

Formicophillia

Sex play with ants

Fountain of Youth

While sitting on a woman's/man's face and having them eat your ass, jerk off. Build up as much pressure as possible before releasing, spewing like a venerable geyser all over their face, neck and tits.

Frodage

Physical contact with the penis, testicles, vagina, breasts or buttocks, while passing another person in a crowd; inconspicuously copping a feel.

Frogtie

Left ankle is bound to left thigh, right ankle is bound to right thigh. Wrists can be restrained various ways. The legs end up looking like "frog legs." An excellent sexual-access or breast-play position.

Frottage

Rubbing against someone else for sexual pleasure without engaging in penetration. Generally used to refer to consensual activity. See also FROTTEURISM.

Frotteurism

A fetish that involves rubbing up against an unsuspecting or unwilling person. Consensual rubbing is usually called FROTTAGE.

Frotteurist

One who engages in FROTTEURISM.

Fudge Packer

A derogatory, offensive term for someone who engages in anal sex, especially a male homosexual.

Fudgepot

Used in reference to the anus and in rimming.

Gag

A gag is a device designed to prevent speech. This is usually done by blocking the mouth, partially or completely, or attempting to prevent the tongue, lips, or jaw from moving in the normal patterns of speech.

Gang Bang

When many men have sex with a single woman/man one after another or even at the same time.

Gaping

A wide open vagina or anus.

Gassho

Pressing one's hands together in prayer. Gyaku Gassho is a bondage form where the hands are tied behind the back while pressed together; a very difficult position.

Gay

HOMOSEXUAL. Refers to both homosexual men and homosexual women (also called LESBIANS).

Gimp

BDSM term for a sex slave dressed in leather.

Glory Hole

A hole cut through a wall, allowing anonymous sex between people on either side of the wall. Often found in gay sex clubs.

Glued Latex

Glued latex clothing is made from latex sheeting that is cut after a pattern, having the parts glued together. Quality, color and thickness can be customized to the individual.

Go Down

To perform ORAL SEX on a man or woman.

Gokkun

Gulp. Implies a person sucking off a guy and swallowing.

Golden Enema

Urinating into an open anus.

Golden Shower

Urinating on someone else. See also WATERSPORTS.

Gonorrhea

A sexually transmitted disease, caused by the gonococcus bacteria, that causes painful urination in men and puss discharge from the penis.

Gorilla Salad

Unkempt pubic hair.

Gyaku

Reverse

Gynonudomanic

Compulsion to rip clothes off others.

Hair Bondage

The term refers not to restraining the hair, but using the hair as a bondage material to restrain the head.

Hammerlock

Wrists are crossed behind the back and pulled upward into the small of the back.

Hardwood Floors

Clean-shaven pubic area.

Harness

Bondage apparatus consisting of a network of straps designed to form a web over a part of the body and restrict movement.

HD

A BDSM abbreviation for humiliation and discipline.

Also short for High Definition

Head (Give Head)

1. Oral sex, specifically performed on a man; FELLATIO.
2. The top part of the penis, the tip.

Heavy Rubber

Term used about some of the hardcore latex games like Multiple Layers, Breath Control, Medical Play.

Helmet

Circumcised.

Hentai

Japanese animation (anime) depicting graphic sexual scenes.

Hermaphrodite

Person with both male and female genitalia.

Hole In One

The act of sticking your dick in your own ass.

Hot Karl (ATM)

The act in which a person sucks the cock of the same man who moments earlier was performing anal sex.

Hummer

A blow job.

Hump

1. To have sexual intercourse.
2. To rub the genitals against each other without penetration or even while clothed.

Hustler

A prostitute, especially a male prostitute.

Infantilism

A fetish practice where an adult role-plays being an infant, wearing baby clothing and sometimes being disciplined by a mother figure.

Jam

A term used in the mid-twentieth century to denote straight people.

Jujun

A submissive

Kaikyaku

With legs spread wide.

Karada

Body; Body harness; rope dress.

Kawaii

Cute

Kick-Fucking

The act of receiving sexual pleasure from repeatedly getting kicked in the ass.

Kikkou

Kikkou Japanese

Tortoise; a diamond shaped body harness that resembles the pattern on a tortoise shell; sometimes referred to as a "rope dress."

Kinky

Sexual activity that is somehow non-traditional or exotic. See also BDSM

Kinsey Six

A person who is completely homosexual, as opposed to one with some bisexual inclinations.

Klismaphilia

Arousal from ENEMAS.

Kokigami

A Japanese art where the penis is wrapped in crumply paper and made to look like a dragon or a goose.

Latex

Latex, as found in nature, is the milky sap of the rubber tree (Hevea brasiliensis) and other plants. Often used in Fetish cloths.

Leather Cheerio

The anus

LFK

Light French kissing. (no heavy tongue)

Liquid Latex

A self-drying latex substance that paints directly onto the skin or over clothing and dries in about 5-10 minutes. Used to form custom wearable rubber clothing, costumes, masks, ect.

Looner

A balloon fetishist. Looners use balloons in sex play with partners, but more often, prefer simply humping the balloons themselves.

Lotus

Folding the legs in a floor-sitting position, like Buddha. The ankles are wrapped together.

Lube

Lubricant

Lubricant

A slippery substance used to make sex more comfortable and pleasurable.

Macrame

Bondage technique which applies rope or twine in a net-like decoration over the torso. Very popular in Japan and in gay bondage.

Masochism

Ability to transfer emotions caused by pain to erotic feelings.

Matanawa

Crotch rope.

Medical

Role-play where the activities of medicine are eroticized. Typical medical play scenarios include intimate examinations, catheterization and enemas. It should be noted that attempting to carry out medical procedures without medical training and hygiene is potentially highly dangerous.

Molded Latex

Molded latex is made by dipping a cast in liquid latex (often in the colors black, red and transparent), afterwards the cast are dried and then baked (vulcanized) in a oven

Momo

Peach. Momo shibari is a form of tying the thighs so the sub is forced to kneel with the head low to the floor and the buttocks raised so they resemble a peach.

Money Shot

The climactic scene in a porn film when the man ejaculates, usually onto the person's body or face; a cum shot.

Monkey Sex

When someone takes your dick back between your legs and sucks you off

MS

BDSM abbreviation for Master/Slave

Mummification

A person subjected to 'Mummification' is completely wrapped up, often in Saran Wrap.

Munch

A social gathering of the fetish/BDSM community, usually in a public restaurant. Fetish wear, toys and public play is not allowed

Mushroom Stamping

The act of pressing the head of ones penis into another persons forehead or other facial area.

Mysophilia

Arousal from soiled clothing or foul odors.

Nasolingus

Arousal from sucking nose of partner.

Nawa

Rope; hemp rope; jute rope.

Nawashi

A professional rope bondage performer; one who makes rope. A rope artist.

Ninty-Six (96)

Man and woman farting on each other's heads simultaneously.

Nooner

A sexual encounter during the lunchtime hour, especially one that takes place at the office; see also QUICKIE.

O-Face

The facial expression of someone when having an orgasm.

Omanko

Pussy. The only "really" bad word in Japanese.

Ophidiophilia

Arousal from snakes.

Oral Sex

A sex act where the mouth of one person is placed on the genitals of another. See also FELLATIO (oral sex performed on a man) and CUNNILINGUS (oral sex performed on a woman).

Oreo Sex

When a white women is sandwiched between two black men, with either one in her pussy, and one in her ass, or one in her mouth and one from behind.

Gay: Sex between two black men and a white man.

Oshiri

Japanese for ASS.

Out of the Closet

Being open about one's sexual orientation.

Oyster

A derivation of the tea bag, which is accomplished by numbing one's testicles with ice and then inserting them in someone's mouth.

Paraphilia

A sexual obsession, usually over an object or sex act. See also FETISH.

Pearl String

A set of anal beads.

Peg, Pegging

The act of using a Strap-on Dildo.

Piggy

A Heavy submissive who can take a lot of pain and likes to show off.

Piquerism

A sexual fixation on penetrating the body with sharp objects, such as pins, nails and stilettos.

Pirate

While having ANAL SEX, you strike a load. After you've found this buried treasure deep in her booty, you scream, "Argh!", like a pirate.

Pocket Pal

A sex toy shaped to resemble a vagina.

Podophilia

Arousal from feet.

Pony Girl, Boy

Pony play is a form of BDSM and/or fetish playing, and role playing. In pony play, the slave becomes a "human pony". It is a special interest area of BDSM. It can combine bondage, discipline, Dominance and submission, even a little Sadomasochism.

Pussy Quivers

A warm, pleasant tingling and/or twitching sensation in the anus anticipatory to anal sex.

Raw

Sex without a condom; BAREBACK

Reach Around

The act of performing anal sex on a man and reaching around to the front to simultaneously give him a hand job.

Renifluer

A person who gets off on sniffing panties.

Retifism

The fetish for boots or shoes, is fairly common and is clearly linked to domination and power. May be linked to other clothing fetishes.

Rimming

Performing oral sex on the anus, especially licking the edge of the anus. See also ANILINGUS.

Robot Fetishist

One who pretends to be, or who has a lover pretend to be a robot.

Role Play

In role-playing, participants adopt characters, or parts, that have personalities, motivations, and backgrounds different from their own. Role-playing is like being in an improvisational drama or free-form theatre, in which the participants are the actors who are playing parts.

Roman Shower

Vomiting on partner, usually after drinking urine..

Rubber

1. CONDOM.
2. Substance made from latex.

Rubberist

A Rubberist is a person with a fetish for rubber, latex or, more loosely, PVC clothing.

Rusty Trombone

When someone licks a man's ass and reaches around to the front to masturbate his penis. So called because it appears that the person is blowing into the ass and manipulating the penis like a musical instrument.

S&M

See BDSM.

Sacofricosis

a sexual paraphilia that refers to people who make holes in their pockets in order to masturbate in public with a minimal risk of getting caught.

San Juan Capistrano

BBBJTC and she swallows. Also known as bird watching.

Scat

Sex play involving shit. See also COPROPHILIA.

Sensory Deprivation

Sensory deprivation refers literally to the artificial deprivation of the senses ? auditory, visual, tactile and kinesthetic.

Sex Toy

An object designed to enhance sexual pleasure. Examples include a dildo or vibrator.

Shemale

A transsexual who has not yet undergone a complete sex change, so that he has both breasts and a penis.

Shibari

Shibari involves tying up the bottom in intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope. Shibari differs from Western bondage in that, instead of just immobilizing or restraining the bottom, the bottom gains pleasure from being under pressure and strain of the ropes, squeezing the breasts or genitals.

Shonen-ai

Boy Love.

Shrimp,Shrimping

Licking or sucking someone's toes during sex.

Sixty-Nine (69)

Oral sex performed by two people on each other simultaneously. Called "69" due to the shape of the two numerals, which suggests the sex act.

Snake Bite

The application of a suction cup to the skin as part of S&M.

Sniffer

The row of seats nearest the stage in a strip club.

Snoodling

When an uncircumcised GAY man pulls his extra foreskin over the cock of another GAY man and proceeds to jerk him off.

Snow Blow

Performing oral sex on a man with ice cubes in your mouth.

Snowball, Snowballing

After a man ejaculates in someone's mouth, passing the semen back and forth between partners.

Snowmobile

When having sex DOGGIE STYLE, sweep out her arms so she falls on her face.

Sodomy

A legal term, usually denoting anal sex or oral sex performed on a man.

Softcore

Sexual pictures, movies, etc. that do not show penetration and usually do not show an erect penis. Opposite of HARDCORE.

Soixante Neuf,(69)

Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.

Southern France

Fellatio without a condom.

Spoon, Spooning

When two people lie parallel on their sides facing in the same direction. Usually with a man pressing his crotch against a woman's ass.

Spreader Bar

Item used to hold limbs apart, usually the ankles.

Straitjacket

A straitjacket is a garment shaped like a jacket with overlong sleeves. The ends of these can be tied to the back of the wearer, so their arms are kept close to their chest with possibility of only little movement. They are used to restrain people who may otherwise cause harm to themselves and others, in hospitals for instance.

Stranger On The Rocks

Numbing your hand by sticking it in a bucket of ice and then jerking off.

Strap-On, Strap-On Dildo

A DILDO that is worn by someone, attached to a harness, so that it can be thrust into a partner like a penis.

Sub

SUBMISSIVE

Submissive

The person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship.

Sukaranbo

Cherry, Another term for a MATANAWA

Switch

Someone who can act either as a dominant or submissive in BDSM play.

Switch Hitter

Slang for a bisexual person.

Takatekote

Bound hands and arms. Takatekote ushirode is one of the most commonly seen forms of SHIBARI and is the basis for many suspension styles.

Tamakeri

Ball kicking.

Tazuma

Bridle & reins.

Teabagging

When a man lowers his testicles down onto someone's mouth or forehead. So-called because of the resemblance to lowering a teabag into water. This can be gay or straight.

Tekoki

Japanese for Hand Job.

The Jedi Mind Trick

When banging your partner, you repeatedly shout "I'm NOT fucking you, I'm NOT fucking you".

Top

Fetish: The dominant in a DS relationship.

Gay: The active partner in anal intercourse; The person giving.

Lesbian: The butch, or dominant partner.

Toss (someones) Salad

To perform oral sex on someone's anus. To perform ANILINGUS. Also referred to as Rimming.

Total Enclosure

Term used to describe situations where a person is totally enclosed in latex.

Transvestite

A man who dresses in women's clothing, make-up, etc. Usage note: transvestite usually refers to a man who regularly dresses like a woman and goes out in public that way.

Tribbing / Scissoring

A form of mutual masturbation in which a woman rubs her vulva against her partner's body for sexual stimulation. The term is most often used in the context of lesbian sex, but is not exclusive to lesbians. Tribadism can also refer to a masturbation technique in which a woman rubs her vulva against an inanimate object such as a bolster, in an effort to achieve orgasm.

Tropical Wind

When performing ANILINGUS, you break wind.

Tsuri

Suspension

Tsurinawa

A suspension rope.

Turtleneck

Uncircumcised.

Tyler

The act of placing one's foot into another's anus, named for porn mistress Tina Tyler.

Ureophillia

Sex involving urine. Also called, GOLDEN SHOWERS or WATRERSPORTS

Ushirode

Hands tied behind the back.

Vacuum Bed

Apparatus used for bondage and sensory deprivation play. The subject is placed in a latex bag with a breathing tube and a one-way valve, a frame made from perforated plastic pipes surrounds the subject. A vacuum is created and the subject is sealed like vacuum-packed food.

Vaginismus

A sexual problem where the women's vaginal muscles contract so tightly that intercourse is difficult or impossible.

Vanilla

Non-kinky, "traditional" sex, usually between men and women.

Venereal Disease (VD)

A sexually transmitted disease, traditionally refers to syphilis and gonorrhea. See STD. Usage note: this terminology has fallen out of favor; STD (sexually transmitted disease) is the more common term.

Vibe

VIBRATOR.

Vibrator

A sex toy that vibrates, often used to stimulate the clitoris.
Usage note: A DILDO generally refers to a toy with no moving parts, as opposed to a vibrator which includes an electric motor that causes it to vibrate.

Violet Wand

A BDSM sex toy in the shape of a wand that creates a shocking sensation.

Voyeurism

Getting sexual pleasure from watching someone else have sex. Opposite of EXHIBITIONISM.

WAH

1. From Wahei: peaceful, harmonious and calm (Japanese)
2. Wild Ass Humping

Watersports

Sex acts involving urine or ENEMAS. See also GOLDEN SHOWER.

Western Grip

When jerking off, turn your hand around, so that your thumb is facing towards you. It is the same grip that rodeo folks use.

White Room

Room where medical and clinical games are played.

Yaoi

Japanese erotic anime (cartoons) that focus on male-on-male sexuality.

Yoga

A man giving head to himself; auto-fellatio.

Zamen

Semen.