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All terms
Abuck
A term for an anal intercourse position where the recipient lies on their back with their knees touching their shoulders.
AC/DC
Slang for bisexual
Acrophilia
Sexual arousal from being in high places.
Afterglow
The good feeling experienced after sex, especially the feeling of a woman/man after an orgasm.
Agalmatophilia
Sexual arousal from statues or mannequins.
Agoraphilia
Arousal from open spaces or having sex in public.
Altoids
Brand name of a breath mint, said to provide extra pleasure when used by a person giving FELLATIO.
American Fister
Insertion of a maximum of four fingers into the vagina or anus. The missing finger is to reduce the risk of obscenity prosecution.
Anal Sex
Sex involving the insertion of the penis or some other body part or object into the anus.
Angry Dragon
To cum out a guy's nose during a blowjob.
Anilingus
Oral sex performed on the anus. See also RIMMING.

Anilingus
Anorgasmic
Incapable of having an ORGASM.
Anus
The opening between the buttocks through which you shit and can have ANAL SEX. The "ass hole".
Aphrodisiac
A device that stimulates sexual arousal, usually a drug.
Arabian Goggles
A maneuver when you put your testicles over his eye sockets while he is cock sucking.
Around the World
Anilingus and Fellatio.
Asanawa
Hemp rope. In practice the Japanese don't differentiate between jute and hemp and use both in bondage.
Asian Cowgirl
Woman rides on top during intercourse, squatting over the man on her feet, not on her knees.
ATM (Ass To Mouth)
The man pulls his cock out of her ass and inserts it directly into her mouth without stopping to clean it off.
Autoerotic Asphyxiation
AUTOEROTIC STRANGULATION
Autoerotic Strangulation
Suffocating oneself via strangulation for sexual stimulation, especially to increase the intensity of orgasm. A dangerous practice that sometimes results in death.
Autofellatio
When a man performs oral sex on himself.
Ball Hood
Inflatable hood.
Ball Stretching
Wrapping the scrotum with some kind of leather strap tightly and pulling down with increasing pressure.
Balloon Knot
The anus.
Basket
A man's crotch.
Bastinado
The whipping of the soles of the feet.
BBBJ
Bareback Blow Job, oral stimulation of the penis without a condom.
BBBJTC
Bareback Blow Job To Completion, oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow)
Beard
A "beard" is a person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could "pass" as straight, either for work or for their families.
Beef
Buffed men.
Beret
A condom.
Binding
Wrapping the feet or genitals with string, rope, or lace.
Birdwatching
BBBJTC and they swallows.
Bishonen
A beautiful boy.
Bloodsports
BDSM play that involves blood, including cutting and piercing.
Blow Job
FELLATIO.
BLS
Ball licking and sucking.
Blumpkin
A blowjob while one of you are on the toilet.
Body Inflation
A fetish for sudden growth of particular body parts, like nose growth.
Bondage
Restricting a partner's movement with ropes or other devices.

Bondage
Bottom
1. The submissive person in BDSM activity. Opposite of TOP.
2. The one who is penetrated during anal sex, especially between gay males. Opposite of TOP.
Branding
To burn or scar the skin.
Breath Play, Breath Control
Restricting airflow, by strangulation, suffocation, or other means for sexual stimulation.
Breathing Tube
Short rubber hose used for breathing with gasmasks and vacuum beds. A breathing tube can also be used for liquid intake play for long term enclosure.
Breeders
A derogatory term for heterosexuals, especially for those who glorify childbearing.
Brow Eye
A derogatory term for the anus.
Brown Bag
When a girl has a great body and an ugly face. Put a brown bag on her head before sex. Also See BUTTERFACE.

Brown Bag
Buddy Booth
A booth in an adult video store that allows viewing and/or interaction with the person in an adjacent booth.
Bugger, Buggery
ANAL SEX, especially anal sex performed by a man on a man.
Bukkake
An ancient Japanese art/tradition wherein ten to a hundred men gather around a woman and ejaculate on her face. See also FACIAL.

Bukkake
Bullet
A tiny vibrator meant to be inserted in the vagina or anus.
Butt Fucking
To have ANAL SEX
Butt Plug
A sex toy designed for anal penetration that has a flared base. Usually smaller than a typical dildo and not shaped like a penis.

Butt Plug
Caballero Box
The large sized box in which some porn movies are packaged. Named after the company that first popularized the format.
Candaulism
When a spouse watches their partner having sex with others.
Caning
Whipping with a switch or cane to discipline partner.
Catheter
Any hollow thin flexible tube designed to be inserted into the body. The process of inserting a catheter is called catheterization.
CBJ
Covered Blow Job, fellatio with a condom.
Chocolate Pizza
Discovering hemorrhoids while TOSSING SALAD.
Chocolate Starfish
Humorous term for the ANUS. Sometimes used in a derogatory sense against gay people.
Chokuritsufudou
Standing at attention. A form of bondage where the body is wrapped in parallel ropes while the submissive is standing as if at attention.
CIM
Cum in mouth.
Circle
Refers to one's chosen family.
Circle Jerk
Group masturbation or jerking off.
Circumcision, Circumcise
Removing the FORESKIN of the penis, often done to infants.
Clap, The
GONORRHEA. Usage note: usually used in the phrase "the clap"
Cleave Gag
A gag which cleaves between the lips as it is wrapped around the head.
Clinic
Medical play.
Cock Ring
A device, often a leather strap, placed at the base of an erect penis in order to restrict blood flow and maintain an erection.

Cock Ring
Cock Snot
Humorous term for SEMEN.
Cocktail
Drinking of body secretions from a glass.
Condom
A sheath placed over the penis during sexual intercourse to prevent pregnancy and the transmission of disease by forming a barrier and capturing the semen. Condoms are usually made of latex but sometimes are made of polyurethane or animal skin.
Coprophilia
Sexual interest in feces (shit).
Coyote
This occurs when you wake up in the room of a nasty girl and you know you've got to give her the slip. However, you realize that your arm is wrapped around her. Therefore you must gnaw off your own arm to get out of the situation.
Crossdress
For a man to wear women's clothing. Used especially for men who only occasionally dress as women but maintain their masculine identity otherwise. See also TRANSVESTITE, TRANSSEXUAL
Crurofact
A leg fetish.
Crushing
A fetish practice where someone steps on food, insects, or even small animals.
Cum Shot
Ejaculation of a male actor's semen.
Cum Swapping
Passing the ejaculate from the mouth of one person orally to another. Also called Snowballing.
Daisy Chain
Partner (A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B) who is sucking off or eating out partner (C) and so on until the final person is sucking off or eating out partner (A). Partners can be gay, lesbian or straight.

Daisy Chain
Danza Slap
Slapping a person's face with your penis. Refers to the urban legend that the actor Tony Danza starred in adult movies where he performed this act. For a true "Danza", you have to yell "Who's the Boss?"
Dark Room
A playroom which is intentionally quite dark. Can mostly be found in the fetish scene.
DATO
Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus.
Deep Throat
Slang for inserting the penis down one's throat during fellatio.
Dildo
A cylindrical sex toy, often shaped like a penis, used to penetrate the vagina or anus. Usage note: A dildo generally refers to a toy with no moving parts, as opposed to a VIBRATOR which includes an electric motor and vibrates.

Dildo
Dildo Panties
Panties made from latex with an internal dildo or butt plug.
Dirty Sanchez
After anal sex, wiping off the dirty penis or hand on the person's upper lip, to simulate a moustache.
Discipline
Verbal role playing.
Doggie Style
Sexual intercourse where the man enters the man's anus from the back side; also called rear-entry.

Doggie Style
Dogging
Couples who engage in sex in their car while others watch from outside.
Domme
The dominant person in a bondage or S&M relationship; usually female. See DOMINATRIX
Dong
Slang for a dildo.
Donkey Punch
Having anal sex with someone and punching them in the back of the head to make them pass out. Said to induce a clenching of the anal sphincter in the unconscious person.
Double Anal
Two cocks in the ass at the same time for maximum stretching.

Double Anal
Double Dildo, Double Dong
A double-ended dildo. Can be used by two individuals simultaneously.
Drag King
A woman dressed like a man.
Drag Queen
A man who dresses in women's clothing, the term is especially used for gay men who dress up in elaborate outfits sometimes as part of a stage show. See also TRANSVESTITE.
Drill Dong
Attaching a dildo to a drill or hammer and power-fucking an individual.

Drill Dong
Drop Shot
Ejaculation by the male into, or onto, the anus of the person after having anal sex.
Dungeon
A room designed for S&M play.
Dutch Oven
When you fart while in bed, then pull the covers over both of your heads so she can enjoy smell.
Dyke
A lesbian.
Ebi
Prawn, lobster, shrimp. A form of suspension where the body curves like a crustacean.
Edgeplay
Potentially dangerous sexual practices, often involving pain.
Elbow-Bondage
Aficionados use this term for restraint which holds the elbows together, touching, behind the back -- a feat possible only with flexible, healthy captives. Term is sometimes loosely applied to any restraint which leashes the elbows toward each other.
Ellie
LE, Law Enforcement
Emytophilla
Sex involving vomit.
Enema
An apparatus used to cause evacuation by pumping water or inserting a chemical into the rectum.

Enema
Enter
To put the penis into the anus.
Erectile Disfunction (ED)
The inability to get or sustain an erection, a euphemism for IMPOTENCE.
Exhibitionism
Getting sexual pleasure from exposing oneself to others or being watched while having sex. Opposite of VOYEURISM.
Face Painting
When a man ejaculates on someone's face.
Facesitting
A fetish practice where a person sits on a man's face, smothering him.
Fag Hag
A heterosexual woman who socializes extensively with gay men.
Felch, Felching
To ejaculate into an anus and then lick or suck the semen out.
Fellate
Perform FELLATIO.
Fellatio
Oral sex performed on a man.
Female Ejaculation
the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by females during sex.
Femdom
A woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM play; a DOMINATRIX

Femdom
Feminization
Dressing a man up in women's clothing, make-up, etc. to take on a female appearance. Sometimes used in BDSM play as a form of humiliation.
Femme
Possessing traditional feminine appearance, attributes and behaviors. Often used to describe gay men and women. Opposite of BUTCH.
Fetish
A strong sexual interest in or obsession over some object, body part, or activity. Examples include foot fetish and latex fetish. Also used broadly to describe any non-traditional sex, especially BDSM.
Filling The Pool
Jizzing in your partner's belly button
Finger
To stimulate a man's orifice with the hand.
Fishhooking
an act where the top partner in doggy style position puts his/her finger in the cheek of the person in the prone position and pulls back, like a fish on a hook
Fist, Fisting
To place much of the hand, or the entire hand, in the vagina or anus.
Flit
Derogatory term for Homosexual.
Fluffer
A woman or man who performs oral sex on an actor to arouse him in preparation for a MONEY SHOT ("cum shot") that must be filmed quickly and with little on-camera preparation. Also called "fluff girl" or "fluff boy".
Flying Dutchman
Just as you are about to blow a load, in any sort of sexual situation (even masturbation for those true pioneers who are constantly on the cutting edge of the sexual revolution) you begin to shout, "Here comes the Flying Dutchman!" This should confuse your sexual partner (or whoever is in hearing range) completely, sometimes causing interesting side effects.
Foot Job
Rubbing feet on the penis, usually until ejaculation.

Foot Job
Formicophillia
Sex play with ants
Fountain of Youth
While sitting on a woman's/man's face and having them eat your ass, jerk off. Build up as much pressure as possible before releasing, spewing like a venerable geyser all over their face, neck and tits.
Frodage
Physical contact with the penis, testicles, vagina, breasts or buttocks, while passing another person in a crowd; inconspicuously copping a feel.
Frogtie
Left ankle is bound to left thigh, right ankle is bound to right thigh. Wrists can be restrained various ways. The legs end up looking like "frog legs." An excellent sexual-access or breast-play position.
Frottage
Rubbing against someone else for sexual pleasure without engaging in penetration. Generally used to refer to consensual activity. See also FROTTEURISM.
Frotteurism
A fetish that involves rubbing up against an unsuspecting or unwilling person. Consensual rubbing is usually called FROTTAGE.
Frotteurist
One who engages in FROTTEURISM.
Fudge Packer
A derogatory, offensive term for someone who engages in anal sex, especially a male homosexual.
Fudgepot
Used in reference to the anus and in rimming.
Gag
A gag is a device designed to prevent speech. This is usually done by blocking the mouth, partially or completely, or attempting to prevent the tongue, lips, or jaw from moving in the normal patterns of speech.
Gang Bang
When many men have sex with a single woman/man one after another or even at the same time.
Gaping
A wide open vagina or anus.

Gaping
Gassho
Pressing one's hands together in prayer. Gyaku Gassho is a bondage form where the hands are tied behind the back while pressed together; a very difficult position.
Gay
HOMOSEXUAL. Refers to both homosexual men and homosexual women (also called LESBIANS).
Gimp
BDSM term for a sex slave dressed in leather.
Glory Hole
A hole cut through a wall, allowing anonymous sex between people on either side of the wall. Often found in gay sex clubs.

Glory Hole
Glued Latex
Glued latex clothing is made from latex sheeting that is cut after a pattern, having the parts glued together. Quality, color and thickness can be customized to the individual.
Go Down
To perform ORAL SEX on a man or woman.
Gokkun
Gulp. Implies a person sucking off a guy and swallowing.
Golden Enema
Urinating into an open anus.
Golden Shower
Urinating on someone else. See also WATERSPORTS.

Golden Shower
Gonorrhea
A sexually transmitted disease, caused by the gonococcus bacteria, that causes painful urination in men and puss discharge from the penis.
Gorilla Salad
Unkempt pubic hair.
Gyaku
Reverse
Gynonudomanic
Compulsion to rip clothes off others.
Hair Bondage
The term refers not to restraining the hair, but using the hair as a bondage material to restrain the head.
Hammerlock
Wrists are crossed behind the back and pulled upward into the small of the back.
Hardwood Floors
Clean-shaven pubic area.
Harness
Bondage apparatus consisting of a network of straps designed to form a web over a part of the body and restrict movement.
HD
A BDSM abbreviation for humiliation and discipline.
Also short for High Definition
Head (Give Head)
1. Oral sex, specifically performed on a man; FELLATIO.
2. The top part of the penis, the tip.
Heavy Rubber
Term used about some of the hardcore latex games like Multiple Layers, Breath Control, Medical Play.
Helmet
Circumcised.
Hentai
Japanese animation (anime) depicting graphic sexual scenes.
Hermaphrodite
Person with both male and female genitalia.
Hole In One
The act of sticking your dick in your own ass.
Hot Karl (ATM)
The act in which a person sucks the cock of the same man who moments earlier was performing anal sex.
Hummer
A blow job.
Hump
1. To have sexual intercourse.
2. To rub the genitals against each other without penetration or even while clothed.
Hustler
A prostitute, especially a male prostitute.
Infantilism
A fetish practice where an adult role-plays being an infant, wearing baby clothing and sometimes being disciplined by a mother figure.
Jam
A term used in the mid-twentieth century to denote straight people.
Jujun
A submissive
Kaikyaku
With legs spread wide.
Karada
Body; Body harness; rope dress.
Kawaii
Cute
Kick-Fucking
The act of receiving sexual pleasure from repeatedly getting kicked in the ass.
Kikkou
Kikkou Japanese
Tortoise; a diamond shaped body harness that resembles the pattern on a tortoise shell; sometimes referred to as a "rope dress."
Kinky
Sexual activity that is somehow non-traditional or exotic. See also BDSM
Kinsey Six
A person who is completely homosexual, as opposed to one with some bisexual inclinations.
Klismaphilia
Arousal from ENEMAS.
Kokigami
A Japanese art where the penis is wrapped in crumply paper and made to look like a dragon or a goose.
Latex
Latex, as found in nature, is the milky sap of the rubber tree (Hevea brasiliensis) and other plants. Often used in Fetish cloths.
Leather Cheerio
The anus
LFK
Light French kissing. (no heavy tongue)
Liquid Latex
A self-drying latex substance that paints directly onto the skin or over clothing and dries in about 5-10 minutes. Used to form custom wearable rubber clothing, costumes, masks, ect.
Looner
A balloon fetishist. Looners use balloons in sex play with partners, but more often, prefer simply humping the balloons themselves.
Lotus
Folding the legs in a floor-sitting position, like Buddha. The ankles are wrapped together.
Lube
Lubricant
Lubricant
A slippery substance used to make sex more comfortable and pleasurable.
Macrame
Bondage technique which applies rope or twine in a net-like decoration over the torso. Very popular in Japan and in gay bondage.
Masochism
Ability to transfer emotions caused by pain to erotic feelings.
Matanawa
Crotch rope.
Medical
Role-play where the activities of medicine are eroticized. Typical medical play scenarios include intimate examinations, catheterization and enemas. It should be noted that attempting to carry out medical procedures without medical training and hygiene is potentially highly dangerous.
Molded Latex
Molded latex is made by dipping a cast in liquid latex (often in the colors black, red and transparent), afterwards the cast are dried and then baked (vulcanized) in a oven
Momo
Peach. Momo shibari is a form of tying the thighs so the sub is forced to kneel with the head low to the floor and the buttocks raised so they resemble a peach.
Money Shot
The climactic scene in a porn film when the man ejaculates, usually onto the person's body or face; a cum shot.
Monkey Sex
When someone takes your dick back between your legs and sucks you off
MS
BDSM abbreviation for Master/Slave
Mummification
A person subjected to 'Mummification' is completely wrapped up, often in Saran Wrap.

Mummification
Munch
A social gathering of the fetish/BDSM community, usually in a public restaurant. Fetish wear, toys and public play is not allowed
Mushroom Stamping
The act of pressing the head of ones penis into another persons forehead or other facial area.
Mysophilia
Arousal from soiled clothing or foul odors.
Nasolingus
Arousal from sucking nose of partner.
Nawa
Rope; hemp rope; jute rope.
Nawashi
A professional rope bondage performer; one who makes rope. A rope artist.
Ninty-Six (96)
Man and woman farting on each other's heads simultaneously.
Nooner
A sexual encounter during the lunchtime hour, especially one that takes place at the office; see also QUICKIE.
O-Face
The facial expression of someone when having an orgasm.

O-Face
Omanko
Pussy. The only "really" bad word in Japanese.
Ophidiophilia
Arousal from snakes.
Oral Sex
A sex act where the mouth of one person is placed on the genitals of another. See also FELLATIO (oral sex performed on a man) and CUNNILINGUS (oral sex performed on a woman).
Oreo Sex
When a white women is sandwiched between two black men, with either one in her pussy, and one in her ass, or one in her mouth and one from behind.
Gay: Sex between two black men and a white man.
Oshiri
Japanese for ASS.
Out of the Closet
Being open about one's sexual orientation.
Oyster
A derivation of the tea bag, which is accomplished by numbing one's testicles with ice and then inserting them in someone's mouth.
Paraphilia
A sexual obsession, usually over an object or sex act. See also FETISH.
Pearl String
A set of anal beads.
Peg, Pegging
The act of using a Strap-on Dildo.
Piggy
A Heavy submissive who can take a lot of pain and likes to show off.
Piquerism
A sexual fixation on penetrating the body with sharp objects, such as pins, nails and stilettos.
Pirate
While having ANAL SEX, you strike a load. After you've found this buried treasure deep in her booty, you scream, "Argh!", like a pirate.
Pocket Pal
A sex toy shaped to resemble a vagina.

Pocket Pal
Podophilia
Arousal from feet.
Pony Girl, Boy
Pony play is a form of BDSM and/or fetish playing, and role playing. In pony play, the slave becomes a "human pony". It is a special interest area of BDSM. It can combine bondage, discipline, Dominance and submission, even a little Sadomasochism.

Pony Girl, Boy
Pussy Quivers
A warm, pleasant tingling and/or twitching sensation in the anus anticipatory to anal sex.
Raw
Sex without a condom; BAREBACK
Reach Around
The act of performing anal sex on a man and reaching around to the front to simultaneously give him a hand job.
Renifluer
A person who gets off on sniffing panties.
Retifism
The fetish for boots or shoes, is fairly common and is clearly linked to domination and power. May be linked to other clothing fetishes.
Rimming
Performing oral sex on the anus, especially licking the edge of the anus. See also ANILINGUS.
Robot Fetishist
One who pretends to be, or who has a lover pretend to be a robot.
Role Play
In role-playing, participants adopt characters, or parts, that have personalities, motivations, and backgrounds different from their own. Role-playing is like being in an improvisational drama or free-form theatre, in which the participants are the actors who are playing parts.
Roman Shower
Vomiting on partner, usually after drinking urine..
Rubber
1. CONDOM.
2. Substance made from latex.
Rubberist
A Rubberist is a person with a fetish for rubber, latex or, more loosely, PVC clothing.
Rusty Trombone
When someone licks a man's ass and reaches around to the front to masturbate his penis. So called because it appears that the person is blowing into the ass and manipulating the penis like a musical instrument.

Rusty Trombone
S&M
See BDSM.
Sacofricosis
a sexual paraphilia that refers to people who make holes in their pockets in order to masturbate in public with a minimal risk of getting caught.
San Juan Capistrano
BBBJTC and she swallows. Also known as bird watching.
Scat
Sex play involving shit. See also COPROPHILIA.
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory deprivation refers literally to the artificial deprivation of the senses ? auditory, visual, tactile and kinesthetic.
Sex Toy
An object designed to enhance sexual pleasure. Examples include a dildo or vibrator.

Sex Toy
Shemale
A transsexual who has not yet undergone a complete sex change, so that he has both breasts and a penis.
Shibari
Shibari involves tying up the bottom in intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope. Shibari differs from Western bondage in that, instead of just immobilizing or restraining the bottom, the bottom gains pleasure from being under pressure and strain of the ropes, squeezing the breasts or genitals.
Shonen-ai
Boy Love.
Shrimp,Shrimping
Licking or sucking someone's toes during sex.
Sixty-Nine (69)
Oral sex performed by two people on each other simultaneously. Called "69" due to the shape of the two numerals, which suggests the sex act.
Snake Bite
The application of a suction cup to the skin as part of S&M.
Sniffer
The row of seats nearest the stage in a strip club.
Snoodling
When an uncircumcised GAY man pulls his extra foreskin over the cock of another GAY man and proceeds to jerk him off.
Snow Blow
Performing oral sex on a man with ice cubes in your mouth.
Snowball, Snowballing
After a man ejaculates in someone's mouth, passing the semen back and forth between partners.
Snowmobile
When having sex DOGGIE STYLE, sweep out her arms so she falls on her face.
Sodomy
A legal term, usually denoting anal sex or oral sex performed on a man.
Softcore
Sexual pictures, movies, etc. that do not show penetration and usually do not show an erect penis. Opposite of HARDCORE.
Soixante Neuf,(69)
Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.
Southern France
Fellatio without a condom.
Spoon, Spooning
When two people lie parallel on their sides facing in the same direction. Usually with a man pressing his crotch against a woman's ass.
Spreader Bar
Item used to hold limbs apart, usually the ankles.
Straitjacket
A straitjacket is a garment shaped like a jacket with overlong sleeves. The ends of these can be tied to the back of the wearer, so their arms are kept close to their chest with possibility of only little movement. They are used to restrain people who may otherwise cause harm to themselves and others, in hospitals for instance.
Stranger On The Rocks
Numbing your hand by sticking it in a bucket of ice and then jerking off.
Strap-On, Strap-On Dildo
A DILDO that is worn by someone, attached to a harness, so that it can be thrust into a partner like a penis.
Sub
SUBMISSIVE
Submissive
The person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship.
Sukaranbo
Cherry, Another term for a MATANAWA
Switch
Someone who can act either as a dominant or submissive in BDSM play.
Switch Hitter
Slang for a bisexual person.
Takatekote
Bound hands and arms. Takatekote ushirode is one of the most commonly seen forms of SHIBARI and is the basis for many suspension styles.
Tamakeri
Ball kicking.
Tazuma
Bridle & reins.
Teabagging
When a man lowers his testicles down onto someone's mouth or forehead. So-called because of the resemblance to lowering a teabag into water. This can be gay or straight.

Teabagging
Tekoki
Japanese for Hand Job.
The Jedi Mind Trick
When banging your partner, you repeatedly shout "I'm NOT fucking you, I'm NOT fucking you".
Top
Fetish: The dominant in a DS relationship.
Gay: The active partner in anal intercourse; The person giving.
Lesbian: The butch, or dominant partner.
Toss (someones) Salad
To perform oral sex on someone's anus. To perform ANILINGUS. Also referred to as Rimming.
Total Enclosure
Term used to describe situations where a person is totally enclosed in latex.
Transvestite
A man who dresses in women's clothing, make-up, etc. Usage note: transvestite usually refers to a man who regularly dresses like a woman and goes out in public that way.
Tribbing / Scissoring
A form of mutual masturbation in which a woman rubs her vulva against her partner's body for sexual stimulation. The term is most often used in the context of lesbian sex, but is not exclusive to lesbians. Tribadism can also refer to a masturbation technique in which a woman rubs her vulva against an inanimate object such as a bolster, in an effort to achieve orgasm.
Tropical Wind
When performing ANILINGUS, you break wind.
Tsuri
Suspension
Tsurinawa
A suspension rope.
Turtleneck
Uncircumcised.
Tyler
The act of placing one's foot into another's anus, named for porn mistress Tina Tyler.
Ureophillia
Sex involving urine. Also called, GOLDEN SHOWERS or WATRERSPORTS
Ushirode
Hands tied behind the back.
Vacuum Bed
Apparatus used for bondage and sensory deprivation play. The subject is placed in a latex bag with a breathing tube and a one-way valve, a frame made from perforated plastic pipes surrounds the subject. A vacuum is created and the subject is sealed like vacuum-packed food.

Vacuum Bed
Vaginismus
A sexual problem where the women's vaginal muscles contract so tightly that intercourse is difficult or impossible.
Vanilla
Non-kinky, "traditional" sex, usually between men and women.
Venereal Disease (VD)
A sexually transmitted disease, traditionally refers to syphilis and gonorrhea. See STD. Usage note: this terminology has fallen out of favor; STD (sexually transmitted disease) is the more common term.
Vibe
VIBRATOR.
Vibrator
A sex toy that vibrates, often used to stimulate the clitoris.
Usage note: A DILDO generally refers to a toy with no moving parts, as opposed to a vibrator which includes an electric motor that causes it to vibrate.
Violet Wand
A BDSM sex toy in the shape of a wand that creates a shocking sensation.
Voyeurism
Getting sexual pleasure from watching someone else have sex. Opposite of EXHIBITIONISM.
WAH
1. From Wahei: peaceful, harmonious and calm (Japanese)
2. Wild Ass Humping
Watersports
Sex acts involving urine or ENEMAS. See also GOLDEN SHOWER.
Western Grip
When jerking off, turn your hand around, so that your thumb is facing towards you. It is the same grip that rodeo folks use.
White Room
Room where medical and clinical games are played.
Yaoi
Japanese erotic anime (cartoons) that focus on male-on-male sexuality.
Yoga
A man giving head to himself; auto-fellatio.
Zamen
Semen.